I saw two kids fighting at school today. I don’t know who started it but the moment I caught them fighting, they froze. Both of them started blaming the other. “Ma’am he bet me first ” said the first child. “No ma’am, he pushed me first”, said the other. Since I didn’t have an eye witness I couldn’t decide who was guilty. I am not going to narrate any further because the whole incident made me think.
The kids are in 4th standard and before they learn to set their principles in life,they have learnt to ‘put the blame on others and shield themselves’. This tiny habit grows to define who we become. May it be our mistake or just bad situation we have learnt to blame it on anything else, but ourselves.
If we don’t excel at our work, blame the boss or the customer. If we are having a hard time, blame the fate. If anything goes wrong, blame it on him or her or on anyone else but me. “Keep me out of it!”
I wonder what keeps us from accepting our faults. Nobody is perfect, why pretend to be then. The more we pretend, the more truth will go away from us.
Be who you are and accept if you make a mistake. Blaming it on others doesn’t make you a spotless one, rather blindfolds you from reality.
Courage is what it takes to accept your fault and it doesn’t make you guilty forever. Rather it strengthens you to be who you are without a tinge of hypocrisy. Be courageous!